jackieb71uk
15-04-2008, 05:35 PM
:D|Hi im a newbie, Im jackie my kids live with their dad in wales due to my mental health problems, My eldest is 15 and has severe learning disabilities and autism, he has no communication.
Problem is his dad isnt happy with the school he's in, he's made numerous complaints which havent been resolved, Complaints are my son has 1-1 and on a visit to school he found our son in school pants that had dried urine in, obviously he'd wet himself earlier, an no-one had noticed, it seems our son is left in front of the computer all day, to keep him quiet, as he wont do anything else much for his teachers, as they cant control him, my son can be very violent lashing out at teachers, punching, kicking, biteing and scratching, but this behaviour is ONLYat school !, Me or his dad have disiplined him the same, as our youngest son 10, by verbal commands and time out, school took a video of him in a rage and we were stunned as we havent seen him like that, he really was a different child :confused:, Same day as the wee accident, our son cam back from dinner covered in his food and no-one had bothered to wipe his mouth or anything, they were also stripping the kids off for p.e in the classroom, with no privacy or dignaty, these are 12-16 year old boys. This is just the tip of the iceberg aparantly, so my X is pulling him out of school on Friday for good, until the LEA solve the issues, as we say no-one should be left in their own urine, for it to dry, etc, especially when he gets one to one, it's so disgusting, this school is a centre of excelence and were having problems having our voices heard, so any help would be grateful, aparantly my x has complained to the LEA before but they said his needs were being met :confused:,
They live in Denbighshire wales btw
jackie
Problem is his dad isnt happy with the school he's in, he's made numerous complaints which havent been resolved, Complaints are my son has 1-1 and on a visit to school he found our son in school pants that had dried urine in, obviously he'd wet himself earlier, an no-one had noticed, it seems our son is left in front of the computer all day, to keep him quiet, as he wont do anything else much for his teachers, as they cant control him, my son can be very violent lashing out at teachers, punching, kicking, biteing and scratching, but this behaviour is ONLYat school !, Me or his dad have disiplined him the same, as our youngest son 10, by verbal commands and time out, school took a video of him in a rage and we were stunned as we havent seen him like that, he really was a different child :confused:, Same day as the wee accident, our son cam back from dinner covered in his food and no-one had bothered to wipe his mouth or anything, they were also stripping the kids off for p.e in the classroom, with no privacy or dignaty, these are 12-16 year old boys. This is just the tip of the iceberg aparantly, so my X is pulling him out of school on Friday for good, until the LEA solve the issues, as we say no-one should be left in their own urine, for it to dry, etc, especially when he gets one to one, it's so disgusting, this school is a centre of excelence and were having problems having our voices heard, so any help would be grateful, aparantly my x has complained to the LEA before but they said his needs were being met :confused:,
They live in Denbighshire wales btw
jackie